2023 Winter Reading List

Winter is the perfect time to slow down. In winter, living in Edmonton, Alberta, means less daylight, and temperatures fluctuate between 5 to -40 degrees Celsius. Although I don’t love the cold weather, a cold winter is a perfect incentive to put on fuzzy, comfortable clothes, make a giant pot of tea, and read books. Here is a list of fiction and non-fiction books I’m eager to read this season. These might be great to try if you are looking for inspiring books!

Non-Fiction

I used to only listen to non-fiction books on audible. Still, I felt that I was distracted because I was either driving or working on chores, so I’m trying to get back into reading the physical copies to ensure the information sticks! Here are my recommendations for 2023.

The Everyday Hero- Robyn Sharma

A personal growth book by a talented and successful business coach Robin Sharma. I’m curious about what methods of balancing discipline and success Sharma has for us in the digital age. I have read one of his other books, The 5 Am Club, and while I don’t personally practice the strict routine of getting up before dawn, the book was insightful. I wonder how his perspectives have changed and or evolved since The 5 am Club was written 3 years ago. I enjoyed some of the suggestions in his previous book; however, the fictional storyline was a bit cringy. Nevertheless, I know he came from a good place; perhaps this book has matured his writing style.

How to do the Work– Dr. Nicole LePera

I used to see a psychologist regularly; however, due to the expense, I have chosen to try to learn as much from others as possible. While I enjoyed therapy, I always felt lighter; I’m interested in knowing what “work” I can accomplish independently. Often, I would have my finger on the dial to call my therapist and then stop myself and ask, “what would she ask me in the session,” and could come up with the answer on my own. Psychologist Dr. Nicole LePera writes this book, and her background may foster a unique approach to self-development I’ve never considered. LePera looks at therapy in a holistic manor; she believes that the mind has the power to change our perspectives, even though we’ve been conditioned into coping mechanisms that don’t serve us.

The Courage to be Disliked- Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitae Koga

I’ve always admired Japanese culture, their attention to detail, keeping traditions, and honoring respect for all beings. So my instant prejudice to the culture would question why two Japanese authors would write about being disliked. This contradiction makes me want to dive right in.

Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience– Brene Brown

I was gifted this book for my birthday last year and only got around to reading the first two chapters, but I’m looking forward to cracking into the rest of it. I’m a huge fan of Brene; I’ve listed to several of her audiobooks and think she’s a great warrior and advocate for introducing vulnerability in a work-obsessed western culture.

Fiction

I love fiction, the psychology of the flaws that a protagonist must overcome, and their journey is just such a great escape from life’s monotony. I used to read a lot more, and lately, it’s been my biggest regret that I haven’t read more often… hmm it might be because of the giant metal block that’s always glued to my hand.

Us Against You- Fredrick Backman

This book is the sequel to Beartown. It follows a full range of young and old characters living in a small town obsessed with hockey. The characters all face interpersonal problems, and the plot twists add up delightfully as each character navigates their hopes and dreams in the baren hockey town. Both dramatic and suspenseful, this book is so engaging it’s not hard to keep the pages turning. Politics, secrets, and relationships haunt the members of the town, however, the dramatic elements in the book are so thoughtfully portrayed.

The First to Die at the End-Adam Silvera

This was a trendy YA novel on the BookTok list last year, and I wanted to see what all the hype was about. So far, I’m enjoying it; the novel is easy to read yet thoughtful at the same time. It’s nice to read about young adults, as they seem less complicated than adult characters!

Carrie Soto is Back- Taylor Jenkins Reid

This book was at the top of the 2023 Good Reads choice awards for historical fiction. Then one of my close friends raved about it, so in the cart, it goes. Written by Taylor Jenkins Reid, known for having several best sellers, I really enjoyed her other novels, Daisy Jones and the Six and the 7 Husbands of Evelyn Hugo. So I’m eager to see if this book, whose protagonist is a 37-year-old tennis champ, will also satisfy my admiration for this author.

Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow- Gabrielle Zevin

Another Good Reads winner and recommendation by a friend. A book about childhood friends who learn about the power of hustle and connection sounds like a fantastic journey to read about.

Summary

Is it just me, or does everyone tend to read more in the winter? Is it the weather or all the new year resolutions? Anyway’s, reading is often better with a baked good. Try making my gluten-free banana bread.

How to Plan the Ultimate Vacation!

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For those planning your post-pandemic vacation, also being described as the revenge vacation, I have a simple hack that will make it easier for you to narrow it down. If you’re anything like me, the multitude of social media images and blog posts has scrambled my brain and made my ability to decide on only one travel destination a challenging feat.

When it comes to vacation planning, I needed to create something to stop me from getting overwhelmed, so I constructed a spreadsheet that lined up my values and interests, which was the fastest way for me to put a bullseye on where to buy my next ticket. Some of you may have different values or factors to consider (ie, children, distance, and duration) that you may add to your count.

For myself, the following elements to consider are essential:

Cost

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How much to spend on a vacation is a personal choice, lifestyle factors like home ownership, debt, or children can deter you from staying at t Ritz and flying first class, but even on a lower budget, traveling can be affordable. Knowing I will always want to plan another vacation when I get home, I tend to spend less on accommodations and splurge on activities.

Activities

What do you want to do when you get to your destination? For me, swimming is number one on a summer vacation list. Getting into a refreshing body of water feels amazing, and bonus points if I can rent a nearby paddleboard.

Nature or Culture?

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Sometimes I want to escape with no make-up, do strenuous physical activity, and hang out with a book at my hotel. However, when I’m on a long flight, I want to transpose myself into a much more unique world than I’m currently in. Less time at the hotel, more time out and about. Seeing and being seen, I want to hear other languages, see people dressed in fabulous clothing, and taste delicious food.

Food

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Lately, my trips have consisted of me packing sandwiches, beef jerky, and baked goods. When traveling abroad, I love hunting down must-try restaurants. I like to experience the variety of new flavors a country offers and adopt a “see food” diet; I eat anything I see that looks good. Then, back home, I can go back to more short staples. Cities with food I wouldn’t typically see in restaurants in Edmonton, Canada, must be explored!

Transportation

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When I travel, I want to have as stress-free a trip as possible; this means the place I’m visiting has a robust transportation system. Renting a car in an unknown city is far from ideal—driving on the left-hand side of the road, or a stand, and traffic, no thanks. If I can take a train, uber, bus, or use the “heel, toe” express to get around, it makes the destination much more favorable.

Put all these factors together, and this is what my sheet looks like:

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Final Results

CountryBudget-FriendlyActivitiesFoodCultureTransportationTotal
Portugal97810640
Turkey98810843
Greece69910640
Spain99810945
France571010941
Travel Decision Making

Summary

I used this spreadsheet to help me narrow my decision down to Spain. As a solo traveler, it seems like an accessible country to navigate for a shorter time frame. I can’t wait to see how much fun traveling in Spain will be! I hope you can use this as a template when you are scratching your head for your next getaway.

The Desire of Dubrovnik!

Hello, a few words about my first city stop in Croatia! Once the shuttle into town took off, and the views of the Adriatic sea appeared I knew I was in love. I was dropped off at the Pile gate and took a taxi to a lovely Airbnb with an exceptional view.  I spent the evening exploring the old town, a huge stone palace, a perfect setting to get lost.

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Dubrovnik’s Ideal Sunset Spot: Busco Bar

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Surrounded by the Sea

Take a day trip to Lokrum island. Take a 10 min ferry ride to break away from the excitement and bustle of the city center. Here you will find an ideal space for tranquil day.

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A High Up City Highlight!

Walk the city walls. If you are going during the busy tourist season, go after 5pm to avoid the busy hours full of buzzing cruise ship patrons.

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Accommodations:

Dubrovnik Airbnb (walking distance to city)

Dubrovnik Airbnb #2 (inside city walls)

 

 

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Split, the City for Romance!

I was only three months old when my mom decided to leave me with my grandma and enjoy her honeymoon in Split, Croatia. Fast forward to about 31 years; now I was able to experience the charming city as well with a few friends from Montreal, Canada.

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A must for  is to wander through market stalls in any new city I can. Fortunately, the Pazar Green Market, open every day from 7 am to 2 pm and is located near the ferry port.  Items we picked up, fresh fruit, cheese, prosciutto, candied fruit.

Pazar Green Market

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Remember, it’s a market, this is the place to practice your negotiation skills 😉

Food for Thought

Since restaurants will use fake flavored truffle flavored oil,  you can get a good deal on these tasty morsels in the market, as the real thing is quite expensive!Split2017-7

Pizza & Pastry Pit Stop in Spit!

Food is good but mostly touristy. A Croatian girl I had met earlier in Hvar recommended that I try pizza in Split. It is a bit different, not a greasy from thick layers of cheese. Instead, I picked a vegetarian one. Elena, the lady in a shop, said was her favorite, a cartoon portrait of her drawn on the pastry shop wall.

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ZA!!!

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I imaged that since my parents chose Split for their romantic vacation, it would be a city full of romance. I think love was in the air, the love that comes from friendships, both new and old.  We adopted two goofy and heart-warming male escorts from Florida on our last night in Hvar. Luckily for us, they were also on their way to Split and we were thrilled they could join us for some sightseeing, dining and dancing!

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Accommodations:

Where we stayed: Split Airbnb

 

April 2017 Playlist

Well, spring is in the air! With the warmer weather and longer hours of daylight, I chose to spend more time outside enjoying good music. Let me leave you with a few tunes and a great quote:

“When spring came, even the false spring, there were no problems except where to be happiest. The only thing that could spoil a day was people and if you could keep from making engagements, each day had no limits. People were always the limiters of happiness except for the very few that were as good as spring itself.” Ernest Hemingway

1. Kaleo- Way Down We Go
2. The Lumineers- Angela
3. Mark Farina – Dream Machine feat. Sean Hayes (Downtempo Mix)
4. (feat. Tove Lo) Nick Jonas- Close
5. (Ft. Son Mieux) The Him-Feels Like Home
6. Banks-Beggin For Thread
7. Ft. Bipolar Sunshine DJ Snake- Middle
8. The Arctic Monkeys- Why’d You Only Call Me When You’re High
9. (Jane Doze Remix) Norman Laass-Pumping Blood
10. Chet Faker-No Diggity

What Brings you to Montreal?

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Friends, Food and a Lavish Cultural Wedding!

During a New Year’s trip to Nicaragua in 2014, I was fortunate to find myself in a tour group with a few great ladies who reside in Montreal, Canada.  Our friendship has since blossomed and we been able to connect through more traveling. This January I was invited to a first Jewish-Moroccan wedding; I knew it was going to an experience that couldn’t be passed up! Here are some highlights from the weekend festivities:

At some point we have all experienced changes in our social circles, friends move away to pursue exciting careers or romances and some we just grow apart from as our interests diversify. Your best friend from grade school may be a few minutes away but don’t discount the fact that an overseas buddy may be more supportive of your lifestyle since you’ve bonded over several days and nights of travel exploration. Besides being the ultimate Montreal tour guide, my far away friend Emily has since been first on my list of emergency face-time sessions and was the motivation behind booking a trip to Argentina. As a friend, she’s both refreshing and constructive, and being in her presence is invigorating. Have you ever pursued a long-distance friendship?  Do you think it’s possible to be closer to a friend who doesn’t live in the same city? I would love to hear about your long distance friendships!